Sexy Saturdays- Diana's Diary and embracing Pornography

I have a dirty little confession to make: one of my favorite things to do is skim the shelves of the bookstore with my friends looking for the latest in high quality Pornography Literature. And, you know it has taken me quite sometime to decide whether or not to tell you that and the thought crossed my mind, "Why on earth would I hesitate to share that?". After thinking about it for a while I realized it wasn't my mistake or shame over pornography, or at least it wasn't JUST mine our society has somehow declared that pornography is for women to either be in for men, or for men to watch, even though for men porn rarely comes without shame. The other thing I realized is that its in everything to do with pornography or any works about sex, even within the works themselves. The first issue I wanted to bring up was something I didn't even realize until I read one. Pornography is not even referred to as pornography there is this new, easier word,"Erotica". I will NEVER be using that word on this blog. Erotica is cowardly. Erotica is for people who don't want to admit that they like porn, who are ashamed to admit that they like pornography, that they get off on pornography. It applies to men and to women as well, the shame applied to porn is universal and a great shame. Let me say it a couple more times because it really just feels good, porn, porn, porn, porn, porn, Try it! My second issue does apply specifically to women, the way women's bodies are referred to in porn lit as apposed to how men's bodies are. i had no idea that my vagina was actually "my sex" or my "lips" and my personal favorite "my flower" while mens penis's are their rock hard "cocks" and, well, "penises" thats right for some reason it's okay to acknowledge when a man is engaging in activity using their private parts but a woman's sexual activity must be hidden behind cheesy euphemisms. So I would like you to know that while I am opening up my latest porn lit, Diana: A diary in the second person, I feel great and completely guilt free and I hope that next time you open yours or turn on your video or open your next issue of playgirl, or indeed boy, that you will feel nothing but pure pleasure as you feel that familiar satisfaction and that equally familiar feeling between your "sex" as it were [god I'm embarrassed to even say it sarcastically] I hope that all you'll feel is pure pleasure... and perhaps an enjoyable tinge of reckless abandon.